Oh man! There’s nothing like love. The rush of feelings, the nervousness when your crush comes around, the excitement when you finally work up the nerve to ask them out and they say yes…
But wait! If you are undergoing sleep apnea therapy, you have just one more hurdle to overcome—when do you tell your new significant other that you use a CPAP machine?
It seems a little unfair that you have to deal with that anxiety on TOP of all the anxiety that comes with asking someone out, but never fear, my friend! With the right approach, you can broach this often uncomfortable or embarrassing topic with your paramour.
- Choose the right time– We’re going to go out on a limb here and say that the first date is not usually when you want to divulge all your medically history to someone. Nor is Valentine’s Day really a good time either—it’s kind of a mood killer. Instead, wait until the two of you are comfortable enough with each other to talk about your medical histories.
- Don’t beat around the bush– A direct approach is usually the one that works the best. The likelihood that your date will reject you because of sleep apnea is very low. And if they do—they weren’t right for you anyway! If anything, they might be curious and ask a few questions. And let’s say down the road they do end up being “the one”—they’ll be happy you took care of your sleep apnea now, instead of making them sleep next to a snoring bed partner!
- Don’t spring it one them—If you’re expecting an overnight stay, it might be best to tell your date before you get home. Try to work in that news before any sleepovers happen, so your date won’t be surprised.
Remember, CPAP Central has your back! Whether we’re rooting you on as you ask out the person of your dreams or helping you pick out the right CPAP supplies, we’re here for you. And remember—have a Happy Valentine’s Day!